| Fighting for space |
Don't get me wrong, I'm still to committed to the idea of a traditional country garden or 'potager' where flowers and vegetables rub shoulders in a riotous display of blooms and produce; I still believe that in the hot summer months, ground cover is the best way to protect the garden from evaporation; and I'm still equally committed to turning over as much of our plot to perennial plants - both flowers and veg - in order to minimize the amount of clearing and planting that needs to be done each season. Despite this, however, I know I'll always reserve some parts of the garden for annual crops because – I have to admit – that I do enjoy the process of clearing a space and planting those little jewel-like seeds full of promise into the ground.
This clearing of space has its parallel in other parts of life. Inspired by my cyber friend Dan Goodwin's 'Shedding Project' and spurred on by my partner's insistence that I do a little less, I've been getting down to a bit of clearing out both physical and psychological over the last month.
What's amazing is how much stuff there is, both in our habits and our household, that we simply do not see because we have grown so accustomed to its presence! In the same way that it feels like the rocket patch has always occupied two thirds of one side of the garden's growing space and there's really need to change it – until we realise that there just isn't any space to plant beans this year – so ingrained habits and assorted possessions come to take over our personal and mental space leaving no room for new ideas or fresh experiences.
| Room to grow and expand |
It's been refreshing to see the humid earth appear from out under the greenery and to sprinkle in a bit of manure, gently fork it over, and add a layer of recently harvested compost from our bin and so ready it for planting this season's crops. Equally its been revitalising to designate Saturdays as to-do-free days to spend with my partner and to wake up on the other days to a do-able To Do list that fills me with enthusiasm as well as opening the way for new projects to blossom.





1 comment:
I always enjoy your gardening analogies Cherry, it's such a good way to express our own seasons and changes and growth...
Love what you said here: "What's amazing is how much stuff there is, both in our habits and our household, that we simply do not see because we have grown so accustomed to its presence!" - you're right it's the habits that form almost unnoticed that can become so limiting, and can take us to realise and figure out why.
Having a "to-do-free" day is a brilliant idea. I'm not quite in a place to do that at the weekends (yet) as that's when I get most of my stuff done without weekday work commitments, but one day I will!
Dan
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